hiya!!
Ok i really want guys advice... i am a 30 year old single mum with a 5 year old daughter, i work 25-30 hours a week, im average looking, im "cuddly" lol and i have been single for AGES.... if u guys met someone like me would u be interested? or would the single mum bit put u off?
I dont get out much as i just dont have the time, what do you all think ??
thanks :)
Single mum.... needs loving!?
Would not put me off
Reply:Would not put me off :)
Reply:being a single mom is not bad at all .
some men like children but don't want any of their own at the moment ,kinda like being a grandparent
Love them _spoil them and then send home lol
your young and I'm sure a mature man will come your way and give you the loving you so deserve .
just be patient and a good one will find you .
Reply:with knowledge that your a mother AND single AND working to keep food on the table, I'd show you tonnes of respect. Wouldnt put me off
Reply:wouldnt put me off at all to be honest with you
Reply:There are plenty of blokes out there that are single that have kids too, I am that man, 38 with18 yr old daughter, I only see her on Saturdays but we spend the whole day together and we both love the time we have together, I have been out with a couple of single mums and I must say it is difficult to accept that you will never be the number 1 person in that woman's life (and vice versa). I have loads of love to give, but it must be reciprocal. ;)
Reply:I think everybody is unique and special in his or her own different ways. Everyone has been destined a life partner. To me it seems that you think about being single a lot. You somewhat seem insecure if you want other peoples opinions on Y/A. Just learn to be confident with the way you are.
Reply:You and me both. I am a single guy living in a 2 bedroomed maisonette after my ex left. I am in the process of doing it up and have no time or money to go out anywhere. You really for the child's benefit need to meet someone now or kid will possibly be too old to be able to accept another person in its life.
Most guys if you were five years younger would not turn their heads, but you are now entering the age group where a lot of people have tried to make it too early and failed with their partner and are now looking for the right person. There are a lot of us out there whom have now left our original failed relationships and are keen to meet up, but are not sure how to do it. Internet is not really the way either as you never know whom you are writing to. Best way is through a local club or organisation. Or by just being somewhere at the right place or time. Things happen for a reason. Please be paatient and we will ask for help for you in our prayers to make your dream come true. For a single chap the joy of childbirth already done and the early years of nappy changes out of the way can be a blessing. Plus the other partner (dependant on circumstance) can offer money to help support the child. I wish you all the best in everything you do. If you need a friend e-mail me any time
Reply:I for one would go out with you its not the end of the world just because you have got a child, i would take on any single mum.
Reply:I think you having a child would only repel the immature men.
Reply:The single mum bit would put me off personally.... but don't worry, in my experience I've seen there are plenty of guys who ARE willing to hook up (long-term) with single mums..
You just gotta look a bit harder than normal that's all
Reply:if we got on and you were normal like me then would see what happens - why? are you looking?
Reply:Its how you tell them that your a mom, I was "lured in" then two weeks in she told me she was a mom, god knows what eles she is hiding.
A big thing for me is how you got to be a mother, one night stand gone wrong, or it just didn't work out with the father.
I don't like to date sIuts, but I am understanding that everybody makes mistakes.
So if I was 30, I wouldn't mind it to be honst
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Single again!?
Hey all you single people out there! Doesn't it feel great... you can flirt w/ any1 u want. (I hadnt' been single in a year)... wooo hoo!. lol... it is getting a lil depressing though... ive bene single for 2 months... oh well. how do yall like it?
Single again!?
I feels bad to be single right when ur out of a relationship but i guess time heal all.
Reply:i like it too but sometimes i wish i had somebody to be with at night its gettin kinda old to me too but i choose to be single right now
Reply:omg me 2!
but i mean i feel WAY TOO free,if u know what i mean.
i mean guys from out of no where are hitting on me-and they r the horny ones.
i mean it ain't that bad,but when they really want u,then it gets scarey.
email me,sometime.
Reply:Im in the same boat as you (im single for the first time in 2 and a half years!) and it is great to be able to flirt with anyone you want. im liking it.
enjoy it.
Reply:Prime time of your life.
Reply:got u beat... try YEARS!!! it SUCKS
Single again!?
I feels bad to be single right when ur out of a relationship but i guess time heal all.
Reply:i like it too but sometimes i wish i had somebody to be with at night its gettin kinda old to me too but i choose to be single right now
Reply:omg me 2!
but i mean i feel WAY TOO free,if u know what i mean.
i mean guys from out of no where are hitting on me-and they r the horny ones.
i mean it ain't that bad,but when they really want u,then it gets scarey.
email me,sometime.
Reply:Im in the same boat as you (im single for the first time in 2 and a half years!) and it is great to be able to flirt with anyone you want. im liking it.
enjoy it.
Reply:Prime time of your life.
Reply:got u beat... try YEARS!!! it SUCKS
Single during Christmas time...?
What is it about Christmas time that makes other people become so intrusive into the personal lives of others? I am a single, straight, 28 year old male and I have always been single. That's right, I've never had a girlfriend or even experienced me first kiss. Big deal right? Well my parents leave me alone about this, but not my extended family, friends and even co-workers. It's especially weird at work because I never mentioned that I am currently single. Obviously people are really interested in my life for some reason. This conversation inevitably leads to everyone asking me why I still live at home. They just don't get that I have no need to move out and that my family enjoys living together. I live with my parents (rent free) and other adult siblings and everything is working out great. When I need to move out I will. When I need to have a girlfriend I will. Are people simply jealous that I have complete freedom and no financial responsibilities?
Single during Christmas time...?
Okay that's not natural. What secret are you hiding? What is the truth?
Reply:No, they're not jealous.
Honestly, they probably think its really strange. Theres a point where you need to get out of your parents house and have your own life.
I understand you haven't 'found the one' yet, but you should consider getting your own condo, or something small.
Maybe the reason you don't have girlfriends is partially that, girls don't like guys who still live with their parents. O.o
Reply:Jealous that you are 28 and still living at home? Uhm, no.....I'm thinking that even if it feels right to you and your family it just seems very unnatural to others. I couldn't wait to move out on my own and enjoy being an adult and paying for life.
I have to admit that if you were my coworker I'd assume that you were unable to make it on your own emotionally and/or financially. As for ladies dating you.......HUGE turn off!
Yes, your coworkers are talking about you big time behind your back trying to figure out what is going on.
It is ok that you have never had a date or your first kiss. Some men just never find someone that feels right to them.
Reply:Yes people may be jealous but curious also. How can a guy live 28 years on this earth and not want to be with someone besides his family. Christmas time usually turns peoples thoughts to their families - most of the time there are issues- but they want to find happiness for all. If you are content living at home and don't need anything else right now - that's great. If your parents are content with you being home - more power to ya. Christmas is a sharing time and everyone wants you to share. Keep your personal information to yourself as much as possible without being rude and answer all questions with the least amount of words reassuring them that you and your family are happy this holiday season.
Reply:I think it's more a fascination over the fact that an adult has never kissed anyone. That and an adult living at home with his parents is sometimes considered to have issues.
I find this line disturbing.
"When I need to have a girlfriend I will."
Are you saying that you'll date a girl if you think it will benefit you or that you'll date when you find the right person?
Reply:im jealous! blah i havent been single in like 1 year and half (except for like 3 days) im soooo jealous
Reply:You're different from other guys your age, so people tend to judge others who are different. Most people don't see it as "complete freedom and no financial responsibilities" They see living on their own as freedom and the financial responsibilities are a part of life. People enjoy getting out on their own and being able to make their own decisions about money and what not. I'll just tell you that its a turn-off for a guy to still live with his parents at your age. But I agree that its your business whether to date or not. Most people are probably just curious as to "why?" because they find comfort in loved ones and all that good stuff.
Reply:No, I don't think they're jealous. They probably think you need to grow up. You're 28 years old! How can you be almost 30, and still leeching off your parents? I'm surprised you even have a job. And it's no wonder you have no girlfriend. No woman wants to go out with a 28-year-old who still lives with his parents. It's normal as you get older to get along better with your parents, but not to continue living with them, rent free, as if you are 16. And it is a parents job to push their kids to grow up, and get out and be responsible, normal adults. And they obviously failed at that. They should have started charging you rent years ago!
I can't even believe how you can sit there and justify this lifestyle. Smoke much weed, do ya?
You are so pathetic!
Reply:your lucky that you have no problems with money and when you need something you'll get it and you bet their jealous
Single during Christmas time...?
Okay that's not natural. What secret are you hiding? What is the truth?
Reply:No, they're not jealous.
Honestly, they probably think its really strange. Theres a point where you need to get out of your parents house and have your own life.
I understand you haven't 'found the one' yet, but you should consider getting your own condo, or something small.
Maybe the reason you don't have girlfriends is partially that, girls don't like guys who still live with their parents. O.o
Reply:Jealous that you are 28 and still living at home? Uhm, no.....I'm thinking that even if it feels right to you and your family it just seems very unnatural to others. I couldn't wait to move out on my own and enjoy being an adult and paying for life.
I have to admit that if you were my coworker I'd assume that you were unable to make it on your own emotionally and/or financially. As for ladies dating you.......HUGE turn off!
Yes, your coworkers are talking about you big time behind your back trying to figure out what is going on.
It is ok that you have never had a date or your first kiss. Some men just never find someone that feels right to them.
Reply:Yes people may be jealous but curious also. How can a guy live 28 years on this earth and not want to be with someone besides his family. Christmas time usually turns peoples thoughts to their families - most of the time there are issues- but they want to find happiness for all. If you are content living at home and don't need anything else right now - that's great. If your parents are content with you being home - more power to ya. Christmas is a sharing time and everyone wants you to share. Keep your personal information to yourself as much as possible without being rude and answer all questions with the least amount of words reassuring them that you and your family are happy this holiday season.
Reply:I think it's more a fascination over the fact that an adult has never kissed anyone. That and an adult living at home with his parents is sometimes considered to have issues.
I find this line disturbing.
"When I need to have a girlfriend I will."
Are you saying that you'll date a girl if you think it will benefit you or that you'll date when you find the right person?
Reply:im jealous! blah i havent been single in like 1 year and half (except for like 3 days) im soooo jealous
Reply:You're different from other guys your age, so people tend to judge others who are different. Most people don't see it as "complete freedom and no financial responsibilities" They see living on their own as freedom and the financial responsibilities are a part of life. People enjoy getting out on their own and being able to make their own decisions about money and what not. I'll just tell you that its a turn-off for a guy to still live with his parents at your age. But I agree that its your business whether to date or not. Most people are probably just curious as to "why?" because they find comfort in loved ones and all that good stuff.
Reply:No, I don't think they're jealous. They probably think you need to grow up. You're 28 years old! How can you be almost 30, and still leeching off your parents? I'm surprised you even have a job. And it's no wonder you have no girlfriend. No woman wants to go out with a 28-year-old who still lives with his parents. It's normal as you get older to get along better with your parents, but not to continue living with them, rent free, as if you are 16. And it is a parents job to push their kids to grow up, and get out and be responsible, normal adults. And they obviously failed at that. They should have started charging you rent years ago!
I can't even believe how you can sit there and justify this lifestyle. Smoke much weed, do ya?
You are so pathetic!
Reply:your lucky that you have no problems with money and when you need something you'll get it and you bet their jealous
Single for Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
What is it about Christmas time that makes other people become so intrusive into the personal lives of others? I am a single, straight, 28 year old male and I have always been single. That's right, I've never had a girlfriend or even experienced me first kiss. Big deal right? Well my parents leave me alone about this, but not my extended family, friends and even co-workers. It's especially weird at work because I never mentioned that I am currently single. Obviously people are really interested in my life for some reason. This conversation inevitably leads to everyone asking me why I still live at home. They just don't get that I have no need to move out and that my family enjoys living together. I live with my parents (rent free) and other adult siblings and everything is working out great. When I need to move out I will. When I need to have a girlfriend I will. Are people simply jealous that I have complete freedom and no financial responsibilities?
Single for Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
they're not jealous, they just expect a 28 year old man to take on responsibility, by living on his own, paying bills, thinking about marriage, etc.
sometimes, proving your independence and ability to take on responsibility is an attractive trait to women as well.
just don't answer other people's questions - be brief and direct, and they'll take a hint.
Reply:It comes with the territory of being different. People will make assumptions about you, but that's an aberration of their own reality, not yours.
Reply:Did you know that DE-NIAL is more than a river in Egypt.
"When I need a girlfriend I will"...that's rich
Move out, grow up, get real. I doubt that anyone is jealous.
Reply:Well no they are not jelious. Not to be mean, but they think it is sad that your still living with your parents at your age. I'm sorry for saying that.
Reply:That might be true...the jealous part...and some people might find it weird, I don't...I say do it!! I wish my family got along well enough to live all together!!
Reply:It is no one's business how you live your life. You are an adult. If you are happy with your life that is all you need.
Reply:too bad... so is every other extremly attractive person and rich.
Single for Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
they're not jealous, they just expect a 28 year old man to take on responsibility, by living on his own, paying bills, thinking about marriage, etc.
sometimes, proving your independence and ability to take on responsibility is an attractive trait to women as well.
just don't answer other people's questions - be brief and direct, and they'll take a hint.
Reply:It comes with the territory of being different. People will make assumptions about you, but that's an aberration of their own reality, not yours.
Reply:Did you know that DE-NIAL is more than a river in Egypt.
"When I need a girlfriend I will"...that's rich
Move out, grow up, get real. I doubt that anyone is jealous.
Reply:Well no they are not jelious. Not to be mean, but they think it is sad that your still living with your parents at your age. I'm sorry for saying that.
Reply:That might be true...the jealous part...and some people might find it weird, I don't...I say do it!! I wish my family got along well enough to live all together!!
Reply:It is no one's business how you live your life. You are an adult. If you are happy with your life that is all you need.
Reply:too bad... so is every other extremly attractive person and rich.
Single and looking for cute single guys in law enforcement?
hi i'm single and looking for cute single white men that are in law enforcement in north carolina.preferably in cumberland co,fayetteville area.i've always been attracted to men in uniform.haven't found too many great guys around that you can put your trust into anymore.so if anyone knows some great guys ,let me know.
Single and looking for cute single guys in law enforcement?
What makes you think you can trust someone based on the line of work they do? Trash men wear uniforms too, what kind of work a person does has NO bearing on whether they are trustworthy or not. Any cop can be as psychotic as any garbage man.
I suggest going to the local Dunkin Donuts, you'll find plenty of them there...
Reply:Find out what bar they hang out in.
Cops are always looking for police groupies.
Reply:whats law enforcment????
Reply:Try hanging around the donut shops
Single and looking for cute single guys in law enforcement?
What makes you think you can trust someone based on the line of work they do? Trash men wear uniforms too, what kind of work a person does has NO bearing on whether they are trustworthy or not. Any cop can be as psychotic as any garbage man.
I suggest going to the local Dunkin Donuts, you'll find plenty of them there...
Reply:Find out what bar they hang out in.
Cops are always looking for police groupies.
Reply:whats law enforcment????
Reply:Try hanging around the donut shops
Single during holidays...?
What is it about Christmas time that makes other people become so intrusive into the personal lives of others? I am a single, straight, 28 year old male and I have always been single. That's right, I've never had a girlfriend or even experienced me first kiss. Big deal right? Well my parents leave me alone about this, but not my extended family, friends and even co-workers. It's especially weird at work because I never mentioned that I am currently single. Obviously people are really interested in my life for some reason. This conversation inevitably leads to everyone asking me why I still live at home. They just don't get that I have no need to move out and that my family enjoys living together. I live with my parents (rent free) and other adult siblings and everything is working out great. When I need to move out I will. When I need to have a girlfriend I will. Are people simply jealous that I have complete freedom and no financial responsibilities?
Single during holidays...?
kind of a big deal but it is none of their business it is ur life so ur descision if that makes u happy they should respect that
Reply:They could be worried about you. Most people, well at least reletives, are nosy because they care. They don't want you to be lonley, they might think you want a girlfriend, or that you veed a girl in your life. Just let them know you are happy where you are, and will make the move when the time comes.
As for your co-workers, it really shouldn't be any of their buisness, so next time they bring it up, change the subject, or flat out tell them "I don't think i need to tell you that" don't be rude, but make sure they know their place.
Single during holidays...?
kind of a big deal but it is none of their business it is ur life so ur descision if that makes u happy they should respect that
Reply:They could be worried about you. Most people, well at least reletives, are nosy because they care. They don't want you to be lonley, they might think you want a girlfriend, or that you veed a girl in your life. Just let them know you are happy where you are, and will make the move when the time comes.
As for your co-workers, it really shouldn't be any of their buisness, so next time they bring it up, change the subject, or flat out tell them "I don't think i need to tell you that" don't be rude, but make sure they know their place.
Single and of marriageable age...?
I am still single and of marriageable age, the problem is I'm a very quiet girl and an introvert and who has problem in socialising with people. I joined a marriage agency and try not not to be fussy with the people I've matched with and till now still got no results after numerous matching. What shall I do? Am I really fated to be single the whole of my life???
One of my friends who is also still single and of marriageable age joined my agency too but she's fussy with her matches, recently she got a match which is very good (that guy was a graduate and has a good salary) but she rejected just becos that guy is of same height of her. If you were her, will you reject that guy just becos of his height??
Single and of marriageable age...?
Your friend is being too picky. Or maybe she doesn't really like that guy. If you really like someone, I guess you won't bother about his height or appearance.
Reply:height doesn't matter at all!!!!!!
Reply:Well I don't believe that you will be single your whole life but just take it as your Prince Charming haven't appear yet. Quiet and introvert people doesn't mean you have to be single your whole life. Just take a step at a time.
There is no right or wrong to reject a guy just bcoz of the height. it is very personal thing. I know most ladies like their bf to be taller than them but sometimes it is very hard to find one. So if your friend have rejected this guy, she have to carry on looking for her Prince Charming
Reply:Height does not the matter.
Still single? No worry, he'll show up from no where in near future. So gl now.
Reply:i DON'T THiNK THAT HEiGHT SHOULD BE A PROBLEM... i'M A GOOD 2 iNCHES TALLER THAN MY BOYFRiEND, AND HE DOESN'T CARE... SOOO i THiNK THAT YOUR FRiEND THiNKS THAT THE GUY WASN'T RiGHT FOR HER... MAYBE SHE WANTS SOMETHiNG ELSE...
One of my friends who is also still single and of marriageable age joined my agency too but she's fussy with her matches, recently she got a match which is very good (that guy was a graduate and has a good salary) but she rejected just becos that guy is of same height of her. If you were her, will you reject that guy just becos of his height??
Single and of marriageable age...?
Your friend is being too picky. Or maybe she doesn't really like that guy. If you really like someone, I guess you won't bother about his height or appearance.
Reply:height doesn't matter at all!!!!!!
Reply:Well I don't believe that you will be single your whole life but just take it as your Prince Charming haven't appear yet. Quiet and introvert people doesn't mean you have to be single your whole life. Just take a step at a time.
There is no right or wrong to reject a guy just bcoz of the height. it is very personal thing. I know most ladies like their bf to be taller than them but sometimes it is very hard to find one. So if your friend have rejected this guy, she have to carry on looking for her Prince Charming
Reply:Height does not the matter.
Still single? No worry, he'll show up from no where in near future. So gl now.
Reply:i DON'T THiNK THAT HEiGHT SHOULD BE A PROBLEM... i'M A GOOD 2 iNCHES TALLER THAN MY BOYFRiEND, AND HE DOESN'T CARE... SOOO i THiNK THAT YOUR FRiEND THiNKS THAT THE GUY WASN'T RiGHT FOR HER... MAYBE SHE WANTS SOMETHiNG ELSE...
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