Monday, May 4, 2009

Do the single Bisexual woman EVER marry a single Bisexual Man?

I find that bisexual women tend to be married to heterosexual men.





Single bisexual women seem to be into a "swinging" OR multiple-partner life style [polyfidelity to hudsband"s"] OR looking for a homosexual woman for mere "exploration".





I believe that the former violates "Natural Law of Compatibility" and the later violates the "Spiritual Law of Intimacy".





I believe "sometimes" that single heterosexual men marry single bisexual women OR they'll marry single heterosexual women and "seduce" them into bisexuality--just to promote thier fantacies [characteristic of lust] and NOT for personal "self-other" fulfillment [characteristic of True LOVE].Do these ladies ever find "TRUE LOVE" and compatibility [a mate]?





Do single bisexual women "ever" realize, "before" marriage to a heterosexual man, that they would be most happiest and understood marrying a "single" bisexual man?





What do you guys and gals think? bi-ladies "PLEASE weigh into this one"-%26amp; bi-gents





Mr"LONESOME"4two

Do the single Bisexual woman EVER marry a single Bisexual Man?
Sure I have a friend that is bi and so is the guy she married . I have know her since before she was married and she wanted to find a guy that would understand her need to be with women . She met her husband at a concert she attended with some friends and he was there with his boyfriend at the time . They connected and 2 years later they were married and have a little girl now . She has her friends and He has his . It works for them and they still love each other as well .
Reply:I think that you're working off a lot of conjecture here. I think the issue is a simple sampling problem.





There are more out bi women then out bi men. If you are a bisexual woman looking to settle down with a male, you're statsitcally more likely to find a straight male then a bisexual male. If there are 100 guys in the room, 97 of them will be straight, 1 will be bi, and two will be gay. So I don't think that bi women settling in with straight men has to do so much with a deliberate choice, but the lack of bisexual male options. If you want to change the pattern, be more of an out bi male and get your friends to do so as well.





I don't agree that all bisexual women would be most happiest and understood marrying a "single" bisexual man, I think it completely depends on the man. I've known some gems of straight guys and some a$$hole bisexual men. Just being bi doesn't guarantee that you'll be a good partner. Theorhetically, yes, bisexual men would be more likely to understand issues around bisexuality better, but even that doesn't count for 100%.





For myself, I'm currently dating a bi female, and there is something nice about sharing my bi-ness with her and having her get it. If we were to break up, I would prefer to date another bisexual, male or female, but I would never go so far to completely rule out the monosexuals (lesbians and straight men). I prefer to judge people on an individual basis and I feel that is always going to be the best way to figure out what is right for a person.
Reply:Dani_kin's answer is one of the most impressive ones on this subject of social science I've yet seen.





I tend to agree with dani's answer....still more interviews and further sociological study by qualified sociologists are in order....and always up to a good debate over mocha coffee (espicially on grey cold rainy days)
Reply:some do yes
Reply:I'd marry a straight girl. I'm bisexual. So the girl could get her chance at having sex with two guys at once. I'd marry a bisexual girl too. That would be awesome.
Reply:In this country, anything can happen!
Reply:i'll admit i'm the jealous type, and if i knew my husband was bi and he cheated on me with some guy, itd be just as bad if you had done it with a girl. heck , it'd be pissed! when i say i love you, i mean ONLY you, i feel stupid whenever i hook up with someone else and it doesnt even feel as good


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