Single Men: If you don't date single moms, would you date a girl who is the surrogate mom to younger siblings?

Many men do not date single mothers for a variety of reasons, both personal and rational. This question is specifically for single men who do not date single mothers. I know a 20-year-old girl who is in a unique situation.





Both her parents died in 2006 when she was barely 18. Her parents were first-generation immigrants, so all her relatives (with whom she has no contact) are overseas. Since 2006, she has been taking care of her younger sister (now 15) and brother (now 10 or 11). She is working, starting college and acting as a surrogate mother to her two younger siblings at the same time.





So technically she is not a single mother, but she has all the baggages that come with a single mother. She is constantly broke and struggling. She always puts her sister and brother before any man she dates. If you date and going steady with her, you will likely have to spend a good deal of time, money and effort in dealing with her sister and brother. So her parents' untimely death has put her in the same position as a single mother's. For all practical considerations, she has all the same baggages and problems of a single mother.





This question is for ONLY single men who do not date single mothers: given her predicament, would you date her? Why and why not?





Please do not answer if you are a man who is willing to date single mother or a woman.

Single Men: If you don't date single moms, would you date a girl who is the surrogate mom to younger siblings?
In this case, I probably would. Mainly cause there wouldn't be any baby daddy issues. I mean, because they aren't her children with some other dude. They're her siblings and I could deal with that.
Reply:No, because "she always puts her sister and brother before any man she dates." Of course, she can be an amazing human being with the kind of qualities which may compel me to think otherwise, but, otherwise, her priorities do not work with mine; that is, lover/spouse comes first.
Reply:she sounds like a good person for doing that.... I think dating her would not be an issue ...but a word of advice ...i think she should stick with guys from her own country --as foreign culture understand such scenarios better ...


i was just curious which country is she from ?
Reply:without any reservation, or hesitation
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