Monday, May 4, 2009

Single.....?

i am single and my best friend is married and it's so hard to do things together. most of my friends are married..so what do i do??!! i am so lonely and alone and hate it. and people i work with all have kids and/or have bf/gf and can't stand going out with them. they left me with a beer tab one night of $55.00 and i don't need that. help??!!!

Single.....?
Get hobbies. There must be 100 things that you could do, clubs to join, lessons to take, sports to learn, events to volunteer for. Start doing fun, interesting things where you'll meet lots of new people.





(I personally took up ballroom dancing, and have met 50-60 new people, plus there are dances all the time. I still have 3-4 other hobbies I'm going to pursue next year, too.)
Reply:Try to find a friend, friends last for ever. If you want, why don't you get a gf
Reply:lol don't worry love will find its way. You don't want to fall in love with a person and that person be a stalker so just wait. Enjoy your singleness right now.
Reply:well only two things to choose from 1.) find your soul mate or 2.)find some single friends to hang out with but that still doesn't mean you wont get stuck paying a beer tab again ..........
Reply:find some single friends to do things with
Reply:As for the beer tab, you should've contacted them the next day and let them know what they owed you. You can't be taken advantage of unless you allow it.





As for lack of single friends...make some. My best friend is in a serious, live-in relationship but we still see each other several times a week and spend chunks of weekends together. A friendship needn't suffer because a person is involved or married, uness they are willing to let their friends to so they can spend time with their s.o./spouse...





To get to know other people and socialize take up a hobby, join a gym, join a club, volunteer, take a class...these are all ways you can meet others and form friendships....





Alone and lonely aren't the same thing...many people are fine being alone (I perfer it sometimes) and you can be lonely in a room full of people...





So get out and change those issues...no one can do it but you!
Reply:the best thing is to try and find some single friends!!
Reply:just be patinet your time will come but dont give up on love it comes in mysterious ways
Reply:Community service projects are a great way to meet new people weather you are looking for friendship only or a more involved relationship. i understand where your coming from, it's not much fun to feel like the 3rd wheel, especially when you get stuck with the entire bill-you didn't drink those beer all by yourself. Try asking your friends if they have any other single friends? Maybe one of them would be willing to throw a singles party.?.
Reply:Don't worry about going out with other people. Go out by yourself and see if you can cause a little bit of trouble!


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