Saturday, April 17, 2010

Are most people single in their adolescent stage, compared to those who aren't?

I mean, are a majority of young people under 20 single compared to those who are in relationships? Were you single for the most part? What were your reasons why? Is it possible to be single forever, is it unhealthy?





Me, the reasons was because I didn't trust girls, many of them were bad (mean and probable wanting kids in the future), I had too much schoolwork to do, my addiction to video games, and being uncomfortable around people. And based on my childfree status, its hard to find a good girl, since a majority of them are bad.





So basically, are a majority of people of the younger generation single, compared to those who aren't?








PS: People can say I'm f'ed up in the head for my personal preference and perspective. Sometimes I'd rather stay single, since most girls want kids and are making impossible for me.

Are most people single in their adolescent stage, compared to those who aren't?
I'm 16 (17 in August) and I am single (Never been on a date once). I am single because I truly don't think I am ready for such a relationship. I have so much going on in my life right now (Stress, school etc) and I don't think I'd be able to give the attention to my boyfriend that he needs.


And another reason why I am single........ over protective Mom. She honestly doesn't seem to care of thinking of me and the opposite sex.





But I honestly don't want to be in a relationship, the way I am right now. I wouldn't be able to handle it, I'm sure I would end up just hurting or pushing the guy away, and best to know that now, rather than after starting up a relationship.








~Danny
Reply:who knows?my friends are all single but they get bfs all teh time. im always single because im in a majority Caucasian area and so the guys here don't like me.
Reply:It's just based on who they are and how they want it to be like that.
Reply:I think it depends more on your personality. I was usually single because I just wasn't interested in guys. I didn't want the drama that came with dating and I preferred to hang out with my friends. I was never truly "serious" about a boy until I started dating my husband at 16 (married him at 18). Once we got serious, I wanted to be with him, but I think that was only because I felt like he was the "right" guy. To be fair, I did have trust issues when it came to the opposite sex.


My husband, however, seemed to be born with a girlfriend. He was always dating or "seeing" someone, even in elementary school. He's just the type of person that needs someone around. That being said, he'd break up after 4 months (wierd, eh?). So getting him over his 4 month hump was a huge emotional step for him (married 10 years now, lol). Some people just need that emotional connection, even if they are 10 and its a completely chaste relationship.


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