Single women/men vs married women/men mentally?

why do most "single" women/men feel that they can judge a married woman's/man's decision about their choices in marriage. When I was single my views were different and so were my choices. Now that I'm married, things are alot more difficult. My single women friends always argue and say it's all the same. Who agree and disagree

Single women/men vs married women/men mentally?
Marriage is about two people making choices together. Single life revolves around one person. Though I have seen "marriages" (several) that revolve around one person.





Your friends are trying to convince you of an untruth. They don't realize that because they have never been to the foriegn land that is called "marriage" they do not speak the language. It is not logical to debate an issue you are ignorant of.





Seems to me you are the expert here as you have been both single and married.





Single life should not resemble married life though there are selfish individuals out there who expect it to. It's about sharing. Where is the sharing in this attitude. It's not always even-steven and sometimes one person in a marriage makes selfish choices and thats o.k. But....it should go back and forth....or you might as well be alone.





Different friends introduce us to different ideas and perspectives. So do partners. But we are more influenced by someone we are sexually involved with. Married or not, surely you can think of times your girlfriends have tried new foods, music, even religions they learned of from sex partners. Admit it or not.





It's the same with marriage except you are more invested and want to do things together for life. This influences all of a true life partners choices. This is Love. It's the same in friendships but to a much smaller investment.





You are right and your friends are wrong is my vote.
Reply:They're looking at things from totally different places.
Reply:MEN, MARRIED OR OTHERWISE WILL NEVER CHANGE. AS FAR AS WOMEN, THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN THEIR THINKING BECAUSE THE MARRIED WOMAN HAS MORE RESPONSIBILITIES, HER ACTIONS REFLECT 2 PEOPLE, SO SHE HAS TO THINK MORE ABOUT HER DECISIONS
Reply:I wouldn't know if it was at all the same or different for I have never had married. Now if you'd ask about singles and boyfriends or girlfriends then I'd know
Reply:I don't get the question.
Reply:when they get married they will understand more of what you are talking about, sure it's different when you're married, you see more than just your point of view, you see his too.