Single mum.... needs loving!?

hiya!!


Ok i really want guys advice... i am a 30 year old single mum with a 5 year old daughter, i work 25-30 hours a week, im average looking, im "cuddly" lol and i have been single for AGES.... if u guys met someone like me would u be interested? or would the single mum bit put u off?





I dont get out much as i just dont have the time, what do you all think ??





thanks :)

Single mum.... needs loving!?
Would not put me off
Reply:Would not put me off :)
Reply:being a single mom is not bad at all .


some men like children but don't want any of their own at the moment ,kinda like being a grandparent


Love them _spoil them and then send home lol


your young and I'm sure a mature man will come your way and give you the loving you so deserve .


just be patient and a good one will find you .
Reply:with knowledge that your a mother AND single AND working to keep food on the table, I'd show you tonnes of respect. Wouldnt put me off
Reply:wouldnt put me off at all to be honest with you
Reply:There are plenty of blokes out there that are single that have kids too, I am that man, 38 with18 yr old daughter, I only see her on Saturdays but we spend the whole day together and we both love the time we have together, I have been out with a couple of single mums and I must say it is difficult to accept that you will never be the number 1 person in that woman's life (and vice versa). I have loads of love to give, but it must be reciprocal. ;)
Reply:I think everybody is unique and special in his or her own different ways. Everyone has been destined a life partner. To me it seems that you think about being single a lot. You somewhat seem insecure if you want other peoples opinions on Y/A. Just learn to be confident with the way you are.
Reply:You and me both. I am a single guy living in a 2 bedroomed maisonette after my ex left. I am in the process of doing it up and have no time or money to go out anywhere. You really for the child's benefit need to meet someone now or kid will possibly be too old to be able to accept another person in its life.





Most guys if you were five years younger would not turn their heads, but you are now entering the age group where a lot of people have tried to make it too early and failed with their partner and are now looking for the right person. There are a lot of us out there whom have now left our original failed relationships and are keen to meet up, but are not sure how to do it. Internet is not really the way either as you never know whom you are writing to. Best way is through a local club or organisation. Or by just being somewhere at the right place or time. Things happen for a reason. Please be paatient and we will ask for help for you in our prayers to make your dream come true. For a single chap the joy of childbirth already done and the early years of nappy changes out of the way can be a blessing. Plus the other partner (dependant on circumstance) can offer money to help support the child. I wish you all the best in everything you do. If you need a friend e-mail me any time
Reply:I for one would go out with you its not the end of the world just because you have got a child, i would take on any single mum.
Reply:I think you having a child would only repel the immature men.
Reply:The single mum bit would put me off personally.... but don't worry, in my experience I've seen there are plenty of guys who ARE willing to hook up (long-term) with single mums..





You just gotta look a bit harder than normal that's all
Reply:if we got on and you were normal like me then would see what happens - why? are you looking?
Reply:Its how you tell them that your a mom, I was "lured in" then two weeks in she told me she was a mom, god knows what eles she is hiding.





A big thing for me is how you got to be a mother, one night stand gone wrong, or it just didn't work out with the father.


I don't like to date sIuts, but I am understanding that everybody makes mistakes.


So if I was 30, I wouldn't mind it to be honst