Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Single Mom Roommates? Is it Bizarre or Convenient?

Don’t mind me, this just popped in my head. I hear how single moms struggle...etc. Is it crazy to have some kind of program or site where a single mom finds another single mom to roommate with (if you don't have family or friends)? Teamwork and work around each other schedule? But than again maybe unsafe, huh?

Single Mom Roommates? Is it Bizarre or Convenient?
http://www.coabode.com/....... it pretty much exists....
Reply:Some areas have apartments setup for single parents ( I say parents because they have gotten fathers as well) where they work together as a support group. The parents I believe go through background checks and aren't allowed to live in the apartment complex if they have a violent or drug history. I don't know of many places like that but there are a few that i have heard of before on tv or in the papers. They seem to be working. Also I do know 2 woman that are single parents that just couldn't make it on their own so they rented a 3 bedroom and live together with their kids and it works for them.
Reply:Convenient. If the two mothers were (or became) good friends, it could work really well. Of course, entering into such a program would be risky, and possibly too much work so it wouldn't be too convenient. If the two mothers were already good friends I think it could be good for them to consider the idea.
Reply:I did it for several years after I was divorced. It worked out very good for us. We rented a nice house shared expenses, and many times covered each others babysitting needs. It is probably best to share with someone you know because you do each have to be responsible for expenses and it is a big plus to be compatible.
Reply:I actually did this gig for 3 years and it was the best deal for both of us...moms that is! We pooled our resources and rented a 4-2-2 home and raised our kids together for 3 years. Kids had the best of schools that we could offer and neighborhood was great for all. When it was time to move on (I was getting married), we made plans so each had time to react and regroup.
Reply:I think that would be a wonderful idea, but only as long as both parties were willing to pull their own weight, financially and with housework.


I also wouldn't want to be stuck living with someone who has the toddler from hell, lol!


But you know what, that is a really good idea!
Reply:Everyone's situation is different and I'm sure it would appeal to a crowd. Not totally a bad idea, just not for everyone.
Reply:I wouldnt do it to be honest.
Reply:i really dont know


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