How can I deal with being single better ?

I hate being single . I’ve had people tell me “Being single isn't the problem, it’s what you make of it .” and “If you think of the single life being crummy, then of course it's gonna be .” . I figured if I don’t like being single, it’s because I don’t like bars, and all of the women I meet are going steady with jerks . One fellow used to keep asking me “Why do you want to get married ?” . To me, the single life seems like a big fat zero ! If you don’t like bars, and you can’t find an available women, what else is left ? What good is being single without a girlfriend ? How can a single person have a fabulous life ?

How can I deal with being single better ?
u have every aspect of life to enjoy ur single life. set a goal, go to school, work, find some new hobby, watch movies at home, read books, go out and exercise, keep urself busy, stop thinking about being single. ur not the only person in the world who is single. not everybody finds a girl at a bar, they goes there for fun, to do something wild, some for one night stand to someone special. u can meet single women lots other places, if u like to eat go to restaurants, go for a coffee in starbucks, go to barnes and nobles, go to mall. there are infinite places to find someone.
Reply:So do you want a relationship, or do you just want dates? IMO, of course being alone isn't great, I want women! There isn't much to do if you ONLY hang out w/ guy friends.
Reply:I agree, sweetie, I hated being single. Being partnered with a loving man is the only way to live... and the bar scene wasn't my thing either... Ever try the Internet? I found my husband with personal advertising looooonnnnngggg before anyone ever admitted to that... 22 years ago. When that marriage was over 4 years ago (he was killed), I tried Yahoo Personals.... I met lovely men... men who right up front said what they were looking for --- " a good time, or a life partner, or a committed relationship..etc., etc." I met men I wanted to see again, but they didn't wish to see me, and men who wanted to see me, but I wasn't interested, but almost all were nice guys, and in my age bracket, wish to find a commitment.





But there are a few tricks: If you don't have that killer smile, get it at the best cosmetic dentist in your area--beautiful teeth radiate health, and healthy, hon, is sexy!!! If you smoke, stop, If you are a chunko, loose it, if you need a new hair style, go to the best. Get help with some casual clothes, and if you need an attitude adjustment, have a few sessions with a counselor to get your head on straight. No one will ever see how great you are if the cover is shabby.


I used Yahoo for about a year, then met the prince. Along the way, only one real nut case, just like what you might find next to you in church... life has no guarantees.....





So, sweetie, I don't think a single life is fabulous, sharing is far better. And loving and being loved with that special someone is just toooo wonderful to give only once. Need more? write.
Reply:The great thing about being single is no commitment. You can date all kinds of women and not have to settle down. You want to explore before you settle down. see what kind of women are otut there. And no you sdont have to go just to bars to find women... You cxan go to the grocery store and find a woman of your dreams. They are out there.. Have faith!! Enjoy your single life!!!
Reply:you can do what you want, when you want...think of it that way. being married isn't all it's cracked up to be. take a trip by yourself!!
Reply:Sweet lord take it easy. I think you are way to eager to meet that special someone. If you are looking for that special someone you will not find her, that’s why the are called that “special someone”. Being single gives you time to focus on yourself, and I can tell you that by your question and frustration that you are not doing that. Now you may think I am a crack pot, but dude I got out a log relationship just a few months ago. And the first thing I did was focus on myself. That included more time with my hobbies and improving myself as a whole. I worked on things that would make a better potential boyfriend, and learned from the last relationship I was in. And the crazy thing is I have meet some really amazing women. And to be honest I wasn’t really shooting for that. I was myself, and the best me I could be. And I didn’t seem desperate or eager. And understand that when you are single or dating that you are meeting women that you could marry. And the more you date the better idea you will have about what you want in a women. So just focus on yourself. Hope this helps.





-Ty
Reply:no relationship tie ups





take home someone diferent home every night





enjoy being single by going with diffrerent ladies
Reply:you know thats a very good question i am also single if you want you can email me at mltn_msty@yahoo.com n we can talk some more hope to here form you
Reply:being single rocks, u get to hav more fun.
Reply:Someone once told me that you can't be happy with someone until you are happy with yourself. If you were to get into a relationship right now with the negative outlook that you have, then you would become dependent on the other person to make you happy. Take this time to figure YOU out. Go on walks, go to coffee shops, go see a local band play, volunteer your time, just enjoy your time to yourself and pamper yourself. You can explore and figure out what you really want in a significant other, don't just fall for the first lady that walks into your life. Once you are truly happy and confident with yourself then the right person will find you when you least expect it. Confidence is very attractive. Best of luck!
Reply:I like being single. I like enjoying life by myself. I like the independence, I like the freedom. Being with someone else is hard because you have to invest and constantly be caring about their needs. Also, people who are able to be happy on their own are usually the most attractive people.