Should i be single? people keep pressuring me to get a bf?

ive had my share of bfs.


but still always got hurt


and it just never worked out (if it did i wouldnt be single)


and i think i should take a break


and be single for now


but my friends keep asking y im single


they say that theres no reason for me to be single


they always bother me about it


and try 2 get me 2 get a new bf


should i be single??


but since every1 thinks i need a bf...do i???


i think they r just use 2 me having 1


im not sure


im so confused

Should i be single? people keep pressuring me to get a bf?
A BF isn't a fashion accessory or pet that you just 'get' because you want to have one - it's someone you have a special relationship with. Ideally, that relationship has at least the chance to become a permanent bond. This isn't something that you can just shop for like the latest fashions; either it happens or it doesn't.





Let your heart guide you, and be with someone when - AND ONLY WHEN - it feels right for you. Your friends don't have to live with those decisions, so they don't get to make them for you.
Reply:Tell them





" It's not like we should always have a boyfriend, there's no rule saying that we always have to be in a relationship"





"plus i enjoy being single right now, no rush"
Reply:Life is hard, with it's ups and downs. I know how you feel because I've been hurt many times. Your friends are just used to you having a boyfriend, that's why they always ask you why don't have one right now. It's your decision if you want to have a boyfriend or not. True love is a long road, with many holes in it.
Reply:get a bf lol
Reply:Do your best to please yourself. Don't get a new bf until you're ready.
Reply:do what you want to do we cant make those choices for you!!!!!
Reply:Getting a boyfriend is strictly your business, don't let other people pressure you into starting up a relationship. Just take life


slow and simple, everything will fall in place when it's ready :)
Reply:Tell your friends to mind their own damn business.


Do what is best for you! Always no matter what other people have got to say about it, Do whats right for YOU!





You will never in your life NEED a boyfriend that I can assure you. Wait until your ready for one, find someone special, besides being single rocks :P
Reply:if you want one then get one, if you don't then don't worry about what other people say... just what you want to do and be true to yourself.
Reply:that's a purely personal preference. if you want a boyfriend, that's cool, if not, that's cool too.
Reply:do you have adhd? thats a serious question.
Reply:do what you feel is right for you, if your not ready for a bf don't look for one, you are just setting yourself up for another dissappointment, If you wait until you are ready you may just find the right one. Don't give yourself time limits, go with what feels right for you.
Reply:if you dont want a bf, tell them to stop trying to hook you up.


you know what is best for yourself and not your friends.





they just want you to be happy :)
Reply:indeed u need a man in ur life to feel allot of things which u will miss if u keep being single


But, when and How that is not ur friends issue. its only u who should decide. when u feel ready for it and when u find the right one for u just go for it. it really can shake ur confidence having some bad history but don't let this feeling hold u from being normal girl looking for love and intimacy


wish u best of luck
Reply:its simple, do what makes you happy. Maybe you can just date around for a while, like a no srings attached type of thing until you find someone you like and want to persue a relationship with.
Reply:Do whatever makes you happy. If your friends think you should have a bf then screw 'em. If you think you need a break from guys, have one. Wait until your ready to have another bf before you get one, don't just have one for the sake of it or to please your mates, because that's mean on him.
Reply:shutup
Reply:If you dont want a bf dont have one, my friends keep trying to match make me but i just dont want one. Pressure sucks but your strong and you can say no get lost. if you font want one dont have one. youre still young and at my age i know i cant be bothered with a relaitionship, its too much responcibility for a girl who wants to get on with her education and her sport. you dont want a "someone right now" just because you can or because your friends want you to, you want to wait for the right guy who is worth your time. He will come eventually.
Reply:Ahhhhhhhhhhhh tell them to pisss off,how would anyone else know whats right for you,you need this time for ureself to be single and get back on ure feet from being hurt so much,you will know ureself when ure ready for a bf without ppl telling you u are,i think u already sort of answered ure own question that u arent ready or you wouldnt be asking this question :-) Give ureself a proper break from men,you will meet one when u least expect it and he will blow you away :-D I'm sorry uve been hurt tho babe,take time for YOU,dont listen to what other ppl want you to do.
Reply:If you don't want a boyfriend right now, tell everyone to get off your back. It's none of their business. Not everyone has to be in a relationship constantly.





Be single for a bit until you're ready for a boyfriend. Only you know what is best for you.
Reply:u have friends who want to see you happy.thats the good thing.bad thing is thry dont see ur needs right now.tell them clearly that u dont want a bf right now cos u want some time for urself. ur most likely to find the right person when ur not looking.





dont give in to the pressure,ul kno wen ur ready!
Reply:If you don't want a bf right now, then don't get one. Screw everyone else who tells you to get a bf, its your life, not theirs.
Reply:Do what feels right and makes you happy. People are lame like that. They always tell me that I need to have kids even though the population of the world is out of control and children would interfere with my plans for the future. People have these dumb ideas of what everyone else's life should be but seem to never look in the mirror.
Reply:If you feel you don't quite know yourself yet, then I suggest being single for a while and enjoying singledom. Trying to make everyone happy never worked for anyone. Find out who you are first, then it will happen. Trying to force it won't work.