Single moms can you help this step mom out? have i over stepped my bounties?

i have been married for 7 mons and my husband has a 8yr old son with his ex wife.i have really pissed her off can u tell me what i should do?


1. i went to a parent/teacher conference with my husband.she got pissed as she feels i have no right to go as hes not my son. plus she feels she should be the one to go with my husband not me.she had to go alone.


2.she gets pissed if my husband has to work late and leaves their son with me.if my husband is not home their son is to go home to her not stay with me.





they have been divorced for over 5yrs but she seems to still cling to my husband(shes still single)single moms can you tell me why she hates me so much and goes out of her way to make my life difficult?what do you think as single moms should i do?

Single moms can you help this step mom out? have i over stepped my bounties?
I'm not a single mother but I was in your position about 3 yrs ago until we moved out of state. It just makes the ex mad when she sees you in her old place. She's jealous. My husbands ex was pyscho though. She would have something new to start up. Through all of the drama that she caused I stayed by my husbands side at all times because we (as a family) made it all about the child and anytime the ex tried to make it about her we just brushed it off because that's all we could do to keep the child happy. Let her get mad because the truth is that she is mad because her ex is happy. So you three, as a family, focus on you three and that's the most important thing.
Reply:Ok... shes not jealous... she doesnt want him back... My ex goes through women like tissue and they all have tried to pick the kids up from school or watch them when he's at work. And I would just rather they didnt.. Imthe mother.. and Im available to be with my children at all times.. as far as parent/teacher conferences.. you really dont have any input... just help yourself by telling your hubby that he should make sure that the mother will be there.. they have to raise to child... you can be replaced... she cant
Reply:As a mother (single or not) you should think of your child first. She shouldn't be pissed off that you want to help her child. I could see if you were hurting him or something, but you are just trying to be a part of his life too.Sounds like she is being selfish to me.