Thursday, November 19, 2009

Single moms can you help this step mom out? have i over stepped my bounties?

i have been married for 7 mons and my husband has a 8yr old son with his ex wife.i have really pissed her off can u tell me what i should do?


1. i went to a parent/teacher conference with my husband.she got pissed as she feels i have no right to go as hes not my son. plus she feels she should be the one to go with my husband not me.she had to go alone.


2.she gets pissed if my husband has to work late and leaves their son with me.if my husband is not home their son is to go home to her not stay with me.





they have been divorced for over 5yrs but she seems to still cling to my husband(shes still single)single moms can you tell me why she hates me so much and goes out of her way to make my life difficult?what do you think as single moms should i do?

Single moms can you help this step mom out? have i over stepped my bounties?
i think it is more important what your step son thinks about you and less important what she thinks. Though, it is in the best interest of the child if you can all be civil. You, your husband, and the ex should all sit down and talk about what is best for him. If you really care about the little boy you should be involved in the things he does, but so should his mother. Why can't all three of you go to the teacher confrence? The only thing better that two parents that love you....is three.
Reply:I am married and i think she would ike to have her cake and eat it two if you know what i mean. hey, if you think you can deal or trust him but i doubt it. Have a long talk with him. you dn't have to deal with the kid then or whatever but you need to know where the man sits and why. he could be doing you over and you dont' even know it.


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