Single for three and a half years, help?

I have been single for three and a half years. I was with my ex for 4 years and absolutely loved him to pieces but he didn't turn out to be the person that I thought he was unfortunately. He really destroyed my confidence but I do still think about him quite a bit. I have met a few people over the last few years but nothing that I have wanted to pursue. All of my friends are settling down and I am the only single one left now. Feel like I am going to be single forever? Any advice on how to meet new people? I do believe that there is someone out there for everyone just haven't found him yet!!!

Single for three and a half years, help?
When you least expect it you'll meet someone don't worry. Your friends might know someone you never know. But don't give up hope you'll find someone.
Reply:Dont panic about it thats the main thing and life your life meanwhile. It'll happen when you least expect it to. Why not try supermarket, library and church at least you will meet a decent kinda guy in these places. Well I was told that anyways. Good luck.





Mrs. G. Are there no single people in Glasgow then?
Reply:It took me even longer to regain trust or even caring about someone but I bucked up %26amp; started looking agian its hard to get over certain heart breaks but then I realized it happens %26amp; why should I punish myself longer by not trying for love again
Reply:Come to Glasgow... you will be single for 2 minutes... you will be hit on by every other man in the street.. believe me ...
Reply:I feel lonely aswell, would you be interesting in us getting to know each other, because I could do with to be with someone.
Reply:He'll come along when you least expect it. Have you tried net dating? It can and does work.
Reply:it will happen you will meat someone else sometimes it just take time darlin xx
Reply:Don't feel bad. I was in your shoes. I was wondering when miss right would come along. I was single for 2yrs but was married for 10 in a very bad relationship. I thought all women were cruel. A few weeks ago i meet someone. It happened to be in a place that i don't go looking for women- deli %26amp; pub. I hardly ever go there- actually this was about the 3rd time in my life. She wasn't suppose to be there either but stopped in to see a friend. I happened to bump into her friend and since the place was packed i asked if i could join them at their table to finish me beer. Little did i know that the conversation would be so intresting and they got me involved wanting to know a guys opinion. We have spent everyday thus far together. Don't give up- you know what people say is that love finds you when you're not looking for it.
Reply:ive been single for 6 yrs now ...i feel the same as you !!! when will i ever find a man ...


i have a met a few in between but not being funny i could get a man but i want to find the right one ...there has to be some chemistry but so far the hasnt been


but i hope things work out for us both


i have met a few men online but you have to be carful ...tell friends etc where and when etc ...


but its very hard especially going out on your own to a pub but its ok if its dinner time lol


well if you find one tell me how you managed it lol


good luck x
Reply:Just enjoy being single Bridget. The right person will come along when you least expect it. You may even already know the person
Reply:you are not going to be single for ever. maybe you did not stop thinking on your last relationship and you are not allowing yourself to meet someone knew. let your past go, and get ready top open your heart to other people.


now that you are alone, learn about yourself and you will see that you will find someone knew as soon as you are ready for him! good luck! :)
Reply:I can actually beat three and a half years, but lets not turn this in to a contest. The best way I've found to meet people is through clubs and organisations. In particular I've being learning to dance for the past few months and I've met loads of really cool people through it. The other thing with dancing is that it serves as a really good ice breaker as you're up close and personal straight a way - it's definitely recommended. I just also want to add quickly that it doesn't matter if you're single, just that you're happy. You don't have to be with someone for the sake of it or because you're supposed to. Best of luck!
Reply:After my divorce, married for 7 years, I was single for 4 years. Then I met a guy when I wasn't even looking. Just go about your life and when the time is right it will happen. (How cliche' is that?)
Reply:www.hotornot.com





Don't push yourself to find the right one. Just meet people and discover what you want in a spouse and have fun in the process. That way when you do come across the one, you will know :)


Anyway, hotornot is a fun way to meet people - both friends and possible dates.
Reply:Are you focused on finding a replacement for him, that has all his good qualities and none of the bad? That is a very specific thing to be looking for. Try having an open mind, and focus on just a few key things you need to have the time spent getting to know the person feel worthwhile on its own merits.





Also, a lot of wise people say you find the person you are looking for right after you stop looking for them. In other words, you can try too hard and become too mechanical, and then your real self doesn't shine through.





If you have good friends, and they seem to like you, just let them know you are interested in meeting someone nice. If you don't have good friends, focus on meeting them instead of a man. With one will come the other.





Best of luck!
Reply:Be the way you are, the kind of person you are. It's the best thing when we are like for our originality.





You don't have to SPECIALLY look for somebody to get rid of this 'I am Still Single' thing.





I am sure someone would love you for the original you than the fishing you.





You are proud of yourself, you deserve someone great therefore no haste to catch up with your friends who are not single anymore.





You have freedom to make choice and your friends don't. Their game is over.





I don't know your guy you loved to pieces but your words are like fragrance and speak of your dedication, do you people talk ? If yes, keep in touch, after all we seldom love someone and its not ofter that we like and get like so originally.
Reply:well what u are thinkin can be true, "as yet" he ain't come along, but there's no need for u to be worried over. U are someone and as long as u ain't find the one that u really love then wait, as the sayin goes "good things comes to those who wait" so there's nothing for u to be worried over. Sometimes there is a possibility that u might be single forever but that ain't say nuttin, u are a human being and somehow u might jus be able to get tha someone tha really care about u. so jus hold on still, have patience, don't worry!!!!
Reply:Don't try so hard and you will just run into the perfect guy.
Reply:What Do You Think About Me..
Reply:i think when people say that you should stop looking and hell come to you is right


think it is because when your looking for a partner people can tell...standing looking around and looking too available, not having fun when your out ...so you look like your not any fun to be with......so if you stop looking and start having fun people will approach you
Reply:Hey Bidget





Try to remember that there's nothing wrong with not having a partner. Maybe the lesson is in you learning to be comfortable with you. But if you really want to go out on a date, if you can hold a conversation, have a pulse, smile freely, and smell nice i'll take you out on a date. And i'll treat you like a lady and hope for little in return other than freindship, as that really is one of the greatest things people can share, and it's much underated.





ps my e-mail tag is no secret and i'm offering you that in full view of our whole watching community.





Take care and be well


ml GA x
Reply:Rejoice. There is nothing wrong with being single except that you don't know how to enjoy it. If you're sitting around dwelling on the past and worrying that your life isn't exactly like someone else's it's no wonder you hate your freedom.
Reply:Be patient. Do things that you like to do. Eventually you may meet someone interesting. Be friendly and smile! If you appear approachable then you may get approaced. If you are the talkative type then say "hello" to someone interesting you see in a store or mall or library. Don't worry about being single. There are positives to think about. You have no one else to worry about but yourself.
Reply:i agree with fluffy i quit looking for love then my husband found me.....were do you live my cousin is lookin for a good girl....try yahoo singles
Reply:just move ur *** im not tryin to be mean just saying if u want results do what u need to do. if u need more confidence start online chat with people socializing is the key. then go out, but pick where ur going u usually wont find a man u wanna marry in a club but clubs are great for socializing. now start before u become a cat lady =)n good luck
Reply:get out there and party , it will happen when you least expect it.


Oh don't treat everyman like they are going to do the dirty on you at any time , give them the benefit of the doubt.
Reply:Maintain your Friends and when you least expect it, you will find someone who will be that person you are looking for.
Reply:The minute you stop looking for Mr Right he will probably turn up.. Get out there and enjoy your freedom in the meantime!
Reply:dont feel presured just because everyone else is settling down. if you wait youll find your someone. but you have to forget about old relationships and get yourself out there. people dont just fall into your lap. go out to clubs. try dating services, go to bars......actually dont go to bars most guys there just want sex. try meeting someone online. there is a huge amount of things you can do. get some of your girlfriends to help you.
Reply:You won't be single forever, there is always someone out there! You just have to keep you head up, it will come in time.
Reply:Me, me, me. I'm lonely. You can rub my belly and feed me chocolate.