Saturday, November 14, 2009

Being single or dating and having a relationship ? A true question.?

Alright I’m just going off the wall here so just sit back and listen to what I have to say. It’s been over 2 years since I’ve been with a girl, yeah that’s a long time and it can get you I know that from time to time but I’ve always wonder about this, is being single better or dating? Now to everyone they have there own opinion on this topic, some say that single is the way to go being that you can do whatever you want, see who ever you want, and so on and so forth, and then there’s the one’s that say that dating and having a relationship is the way to go being that you get to know each other in way that single people can’t, you and your partner get to enjoy life with each other, and yeah, but my question is witch is better? The last time I had a true relationship with a girl lasted over 3 years and it was really good. We both had a lot in common being that are life’s were just about the same, yeah she was a little smarter then me but I was a little smarter then her so like I said we had a lot in common. Other times things would go the other way around, like sometimes she would get mad at me being because I was talking to a friend of mine that I knew back in grade school and you can’t blame her for that, you would get jealous if you saw your boyfriend talking to another girl, but it was over stupid thing, but once again that’s just part of having a relationship with someone. Now since that time I’ve been single I’ve been able to enjoy my time with friends, go places that I’ve always wanted to go, see things, and just about anything that I’ve wanted to do, the thing is that over time it starts to get old you know. You do the same things, or that you see the same things, so in since it’s an on going thing, but now you come back to having a relationship, it’s the same thing you know. You and your girlfriend go off lets say for the weekend and have a good old time with each other, well then your doing the same thing over and over and then it’s the same old story, well then you want to try something new, same thing! So in the long run no one get what they want in life, so I’m asking you, the person which is better. Being single or dating and having a relationship?

Being single or dating and having a relationship ? A true question.?
it seems for you that you should get into more short time relationships.


like. find a girl that you like. and date her for a couple months or so. or until you get bored, break up with her, and then move on to other things with your friends and once you feel like youo need something else, find another girl.


itll give you a good break in between.


oorrrr





you could just find a girl that youre really interseted it and who is fascinating in all different ways that youre so intrigued by her you dont need extra adventrues cuz you have her.
Reply:friend with benefits is the only way to go, i have been in a long term relationship (2 and a half years) and when it did end i never realized how restricted i was, now I "date" but i never commit myself until I am good and ready, FWB i'm telling you, its the way to go!
Reply:It is up to each person to decide: do you like being alone, if you do it's no problem, do you like going out on dates and having fun, do you want to meet someone to fall in love with and share your life with? I hated dating after years of it, i am so glad I met my husband, being in love is fantastic. You don't get bored if you truly love them, you want to be with them all the time and grow old with them. So, for me, being single, I could do it if anything happened to my husband, but dating, I hate it, all the fakeness and games, I would never remarry though cause no one could ever replace my husband and I would always compare other men to them. If I am in love it's the best, but between dating all the time and being single, I'd have to say single.
Reply:bein in a relationship is much better, i have beensingle for several years now, after a 14 year marrage, its very hard and nerve reckin at times, it takes a while to adjust and start over. and there is nothing as tiresome as the chase when you do start looking again,
Reply:ive been in a relationship for 4 years so let me tell you. i feel, for me, its better being in a relationship. honestly. hes my best friend and the more time i spend with him the more i feel i have everything i need in the world. theres nothing we wont do for eachother. i have companionship and having that makes me feel i have significance in someones life. it feels like a great accomplishment. but relationships arent for everyone. some people can be too headstrung or selfish or just merely independent- in which sometimes people have a tendency to drag their significant others down. but thats only some descriptions of people who are meant for a life dedicated to themselves. so either way, there are benefits. and being in a relatonship, for me, is more beneficial.
Reply:read robert frost
Reply:having a relationship should be first.get to know the person.take your time till death do we part can be a very long time .be 1 hundred percent positive.until then date,there is no age limit or tiome that should pressure you into thinking you should be in a hurry.love is forever and there will be no doubt in your mind.otherwise keep in the dating scene
Reply:Both have their advantages but as u get older (to me) being married is sweeter . Compainship and having someone there is good although my hubby had a stoke and I care for him he is still a lot the old Johnny. We can still fuss and laugh and be there for each other.I care as giving baths and health care in wh. I meant--I love him


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