The single life..... AHHHHHHHH!!!!?

Im a single woman 20 years old (and just to state now...i know im only young....but that is not the point!)





Ive been single for over a year now..... and both me and my friends even random people i meet cant understand why!





when I like a girl I complement them alot and treat them and when im in a relationship i buy them gifts just because (but not like expensive gifts at first just maybe the odd rose and night out) but im still single.... ive never raised my voice to a partner, ive never even got angry no matter what....





so why am i still single? so please come on women....how do u like to be treated?? cos the whole treating them like princess just doesnt seem to work! I cant be single any longer im a romantic im about 1 month tops from pulling my hair out as i run along the gay streets screaming! lol!!





And also!! the girls that do like me back.....END UP SHOVING ME IN THE FRIENDZONE! damn i have like a perm membership their! how do i close this membership down? SERIOUSLY!

The single life..... AHHHHHHHH!!!!?
Stop giving so much until they have proven that they deserve it or else they won't appreciate it, and noone wants a guy you can walk all over.
Reply:Unfortunately, it is true that some women do not know how to appreciate someone of integrity and who knows how to treat a woman like a lady. But, there are a few more of us left who need that dying breed of someone with class and finesse. So don't change your ways. That would be a great loss to the lesbian community :-) You may just have to wait it out until u meet someone who can value someone as great as yourself. Trust me, it will happen. I use to be the one caught up in meaningless realtionships with women who may have looked good to the eye, but weren't hitting on much of anything at all when it came to respect and romance. BUT then my current girlfriend came through, swept me off my feet, and let it be known that good women are still out there.





Also, maybe play a little hard to get. That game of cat %26amp; mouse can be a huge turn on, %26amp; once u have her where u want her...fall back into your normal romantic %26amp; no doubt adorable self :-)
Reply:i think your doing everything right. i like to feel protected and to have a good time. just continue to be yourself.
Reply:get out and have fun
Reply:are you sure your not being too nice??? or trying to get to close too soon, ya know? most people are turned off by a partner when you wanna be around too often. try playing hard to get yourself make them chase you instead of the other way around.
Reply:Well, I love to be treated that way, but I seem to be in a minority. Just be true to yourself, don't pretend to be someone you're not just to get a girlfriend. Someone will come along when the time is right - maybe all the girls you meet just aren't nice enough for you. Perhaps you should just take a step back, relax %26amp; have some fun, %26amp; let them do the chasing for once. Sometimes if we desperately want something we end up giving off all the wrong signals. I know it can be frustrating but at 20 you've got plenty of time for meeting someone. Good luck! I had the same problem by the way, %26amp; didn't find my girlfriend until I was 29! It was worth the wait though as all the other girls I met just wanted one night stands %26amp; I usually ended up heart broken %26amp; dumped.
Reply:Why do people act like being single is the worst thing that could happen to them? I am 35 single and loving it.
Reply:I know exactly where you're coming from! Doesn't it make you mad?!!! You sound like a great person to me- and all I can hope is that, like Heinz Ketchup, all good things come to those who wait! xxx
Reply:You should learn to overlap between partners. It's immoral, but you don't have to go through the depressing 'single' period.
Reply:Pfft I completely understand! I've been the same for about 9 months now, I'm 19 and my last relationship was the first 'love.' When I get a girl my life practically revolves around her, I love making someone I care about happy but we either end up being 'friends' or she starts to treat me like crap


I've been trying unsuccessfully to find a nice girl to take out but sadly no luck, ah well maybe I should just get drunk and flirt with every woman until I find the one who doesn't tell me to bugger off!
Reply:I am married and I have more freedom now then when I was single. Life is what you make it.
Reply:i've been in everything ur saying and i dont know why too but i think its bcoz we havnt find the right person yet thats all i can say
Reply:I'd love to be treated that way! Maybe it's the type of girls you're choosing or maybe there's some other element in the relationship that turns them off.





You're only 20 so I'm assuming the girls you mess with are still young, immature and exploring life. Probably not ready to settle down. Give it time and a few more years.
Reply:I've been single all my life. I'm 18. So up yours.